Matthew 10: 38 & 39: “If you refuse to take up your cross and follow me, you are not worthy of being mine. If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give it up for me, you will find it.”
One night, Donna and I, before we were married, went to a Young Peoples meeting at our church. The assistant minister was in charge of the service. When we arrived at the door, each person was given a number. We asked what it was for and we were told that it would be explained to us later.